· Translation: KJV

Judges 14:3Then his father and his mother said to him, "Is there never a woman among the daughters of your brothers, or among all my people, that you go to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines?" Samson said to his father, "Get her for me; for she pleases me well."

The setting

Zorah, Israel, ~1100 BC. Samson's parents confront him about his choice to marry a Philistine woman from Timnah, modern-day Palestine/Israel border region.

The emotion here: desperate parental concern mixed with cultural shame

The original word

arel (עָרֵל) — uncircumcised, ceremonially unclean, outside God's covenant

Why it matters

Philistines were one of the few ancient peoples who didn't practice circumcision

Read with care

What most readers miss in Judges 14:3

This isn't just racism — it's covenant faithfulness in a theocracy

Common misconceptionPeople think this is just prejudice, but in Israel's theocracy, intermarriage often meant abandoning God for pagan worship — it was spiritual suicide.

Bible Genome reading

Judges 14:3 — Bible Genome reading

Speakerparents
Erajudges
Primary emotionanxious
Literary typedialogue

Emotional genome

Comfort power20%
Quotability40%
Memorability50%
Crisis relevance60%
Standalone30%
Themes:parental concerncovenant faithfulness

In context

No verse stands alone.

Read the conversation around it.

Open Judges 14

Judges 14:3 comes from the book of Judges, written during the judges period. These words are attributed to parents. The dominant emotion in this verse is anxious, with a comfort power of 20% and a tone that is urgent. It belongs to the dialogue genre of biblical literature. Key themes include parental concern, covenant faithfulness. Notable phrases: Is there never a woman.

Your reflection

What does Judges 14:3 mean to you, today?

A short note. A question. A prayer. Saved privately to your Soul Garden, dated, and tied to this verse forever.

Speak your heart →

Get 3 verses for "anxious"

Delivered to your inbox right now. Free.