Matthew 19:11But he said to them, "Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given.
The setting
Judea, ~30 AD. Jesus responds to disciples' fear with grace. Not everyone must marry...
The emotion here: gentle but firm, offering hope to overwhelmed disciples
The original word
chōreō (χωρεῖν) — to make room for, contain, receive
Why it matters
In Jewish culture, unmarried men over 20 were considered incomplete or cursed
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What most readers miss in Matthew 19:11
Jesus is saying some people have a special capacity for singleness — it's a gift, not a burden
Common misconceptionPeople think Jesus is making an excuse for those who can't handle marriage. He's actually describing a spiritual gift.
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Verses that echo Matthew 19:11
Bible Genome reading
Matthew 19:11 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Matthew 19:11 comes from the book of Matthew, written during the gospel period. These words are attributed to Jesus. The dominant emotion in this verse is growing, with a comfort power of 50% and a tone that is reflective. It belongs to the narrative genre of biblical literature. Key themes include spiritual gift, calling. Notable phrases: not all men can receive; those to whom it is given.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same growing
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”
— Proverbs 22:6
“So faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
— Romans 10:17
“He must increase, but I must decrease.”
— John 3:30
“Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
— Galatians 6:2
“He believed in Yahweh; and he reckoned it to him for righteousness.”
— Genesis 15:6
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