Proverbs 25:17Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor's house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you.
The setting
Ancient Israel, ~950 BC. A village setting where neighbors live in close quarters, sharing courtyards and daily life. Social harmony depends on respecting boundaries in Jerusalem, Israel.
The emotion here: experienced wisdom from watching relationships deteriorate
The original word
regel (רֶגֶל) — foot, representing one's presence and approach to others
Why it matters
Ancient Middle Eastern homes had open courtyards where neighbors could easily observe each other's comings and goings
Read with care
What most readers miss in Proverbs 25:17
This isn't about being antisocial — it's about preserving friendship through restraint
Common misconceptionPeople think this promotes isolation, but it's actually about preserving relationships. The goal is to be welcomed, not tolerated.
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Bible Genome reading
Proverbs 25:17 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Proverbs 25:17 comes from the book of Proverbs, written during the United Kingdom period. The dominant emotion in this verse is deciding, with a comfort power of 30% and a tone that is commanding. It belongs to the wisdom genre of biblical literature. Key themes include boundaries, relationships. Notable phrases: foot be seldom; lest he hate you. This verse contains a command.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same deciding
“"You shall have no other gods before me.”
— Deuteronomy 5:7
“"You shall not murder.”
— Exodus 20:13
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Matthew 23:12
“For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”
— 2 Timothy 1:7
“But Peter said, "Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk!"”
— Acts 3:6
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