Proverbs 3:31Don't envy the man of violence. Choose none of his ways.
The setting
Ancient Israel, ~950 BC. Solomon's wisdom school in Jerusalem. Students learning to navigate a world where violent men often prosper temporarily while righteous suffer.
The emotion here: urgent warning against seductive but destructive paths
The original word
qana (קָנָא) — burning jealousy, passionate envy that consumes and corrupts the heart
Why it matters
In Solomon's time, neighboring kingdoms often gained power through brutal conquest and oppression
Read with care
What most readers miss in Proverbs 3:31
The Hebrew word for 'violence' (hamas) is the same word used for the violence that caused God to flood the earth
Common misconceptionPeople think this is about avoiding obviously evil people, but it's about not envying their apparent success — the temptation to want what they have.
The thread continues
Verses that echo Proverbs 3:31
Bible Genome reading
Proverbs 3:31 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Proverbs 3:31 comes from the book of Proverbs, written during the United Kingdom period. The dominant emotion in this verse is deciding, with a comfort power of 40% and a tone that is commanding. It belongs to the wisdom genre of biblical literature. Key themes include wisdom, character. Notable phrases: don't envy; man of violence. This verse contains a command.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same deciding
“"You shall have no other gods before me.”
— Deuteronomy 5:7
“"You shall not murder.”
— Exodus 20:13
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Matthew 23:12
“For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”
— 2 Timothy 1:7
“But Peter said, "Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk!"”
— Acts 3:6
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