Job 31:9"If my heart has been enticed to a woman, and I have laid wait at my neighbor's door,
The setting
Job recalls his moral vigilance in Uz, where polygamy was common and wealthy men often had multiple wives and concubines.
The emotion here: painfully honest about his own capacity for moral failure
The original word
pathah (פָּתָה) — to be deceived or seduced, implying gradual emotional compromise
Why it matters
In ancient Near East, 'laying wait at a neighbor's door' was a euphemism for planning adultery when the husband was away
Read with care
What most readers miss in Job 31:9
The Hebrew suggests this isn't about sudden lust but gradual emotional entanglement — what we'd call emotional affairs
Common misconceptionModern readers think this is about random sexual temptation, but Job is describing the calculated pursuit of a specific neighbor's wife — premeditated adultery.
The thread continues
Verses that echo Job 31:9
Bible Genome reading
Job 31:9 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Job 31:9 comes from the book of Job, written during the Patriarchal period. These words are attributed to Job. The dominant emotion in this verse is deciding, with a comfort power of 20% and a tone that is reflective. It belongs to the poetry genre of biblical literature. Key themes include adultery, temptation. Notable phrases: heart has been enticed; laid wait at my neighbor's door.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same deciding
“"You shall have no other gods before me.”
— Deuteronomy 5:7
“"You shall not murder.”
— Exodus 20:13
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Matthew 23:12
“For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”
— 2 Timothy 1:7
“But Peter said, "Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk!"”
— Acts 3:6
Your reflection
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