Proverbs 19:6Many will entreat the favor of a ruler, and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts.
The setting
Solomon's royal court in Jerusalem, ~950 BC. Foreign dignitaries and local nobles bring expensive gifts, seeking favorable trade deals or political alliances. Modern-day Jerusalem, Israel.
The emotion here: wearily recognizing the patterns of self-interest he sees daily in his royal court
The original word
mattān (מתן) — gift or present, often given with expectation of return favor
Why it matters
Solomon received 666 talents of gold annually, much from rulers seeking his favor and wisdom
Read with care
What most readers miss in Proverbs 19:6
Solomon isn't condemning gift-giving but observing how it creates artificial social hierarchies
Common misconceptionPeople think this condemns generosity, but Solomon is actually exposing how gifts can corrupt relationships when given with strings attached rather than from genuine care.
The thread continues
Verses that echo Proverbs 19:6
Bible Genome reading
Proverbs 19:6 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Proverbs 19:6 comes from the book of Proverbs, written during the United Kingdom period. The dominant emotion in this verse is deciding, with a comfort power of 20% and a tone that is reflective. It belongs to the wisdom genre of biblical literature. Key themes include influence, generosity, social dynamics. Notable phrases: entreat the favor of a ruler; friend to a man who gives gifts.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same deciding
“"You shall have no other gods before me.”
— Deuteronomy 5:7
“"You shall not murder.”
— Exodus 20:13
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Matthew 23:12
“For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”
— 2 Timothy 1:7
“But Peter said, "Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk!"”
— Acts 3:6
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