Proverbs 25:9Debate your case with your neighbor, and don't betray the confidence of another;
The setting
Ancient Israel, ~950 BC. Solomon's wisdom school where future leaders learned conflict resolution. Jerusalem, Israel.
The emotion here: experienced teacher who's seen friendships destroyed by gossip
The original word
sôd (סוֹד) — intimate secret or private confidence, sacred trust between people
Why it matters
Breaking confidence was considered as serious as breaking a covenant in ancient Israel
Read with care
What most readers miss in Proverbs 25:9
This assumes you WILL have the debate - it's about HOW, not WHETHER to confront
Common misconceptionPeople think this means never share personal struggles, but it's about not betraying specific confidences told to you in trust.
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Bible Genome reading
Proverbs 25:9 — Bible Genome reading
Emotional genome
Proverbs 25:9 comes from the book of Proverbs, written during the United Kingdom period. The dominant emotion in this verse is deciding, with a comfort power of 40% and a tone that is commanding. It belongs to the poetry genre of biblical literature. Key themes include discretion, conflict resolution, trust. Notable phrases: debate your case; don't betray confidence. This verse contains a command.
Emotionally similar
Verses that meet the same deciding
“"You shall have no other gods before me.”
— Deuteronomy 5:7
“"You shall not murder.”
— Exodus 20:13
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
— Matthew 23:12
“For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”
— 2 Timothy 1:7
“But Peter said, "Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk!"”
— Acts 3:6
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